Después de compartir parte de mi vida con una adorable persona 14 años continuos, te das cuenta que hay muchas cosas de tu vida que prácticamente se mimetizan con la de esa persona tan amada, sin darte cuenta viviendo en una burbuja de amor aveces te llegas a perder en la vida y en la forma de ser de esa persona.
Pero sobre todo he aprendido que cuando somos capaces de escucharnos entendernos y querernos a nosotros mismos, nuestra capacidad para ser feliz junto a otra persona se multiplica y siempre es recompensado. Alimentar nuestra confianza nos hace ser mejores personas y nos acerca a la persona que estamos buscando para tener a nuestro lado.
Some important things I learned from my single friend
After sharing part of my life with an adorable person for almost 14 years, i realize that there are many things in your life that practically mimic with the same person that you love. Sometimes living in a bubble of love you get lose in the life and in the form of being of that special person.
I currently have many single friends who have gone through different emotional states in a relationship, and I would love to learn the attitude of security and independence with which they have learned to live with themselves.
I have learned from them: To enjoy my time alone. It seems that currently saying that you go to the cinema alone, to have a drink alone or travel alone sounds like a critical level of loneliness and desperation. But it is not so, knowing how to enjoy your own company fills you with security of moments of reflection and a lot of independence.
Know how to surround yourself with the right people. And I think this comes from the idea of knowing how to appreciate your time and not lose it with people who do not value your company. From my single friends I have learned that on many occasions it is better to be alone than in bad company.
To discover that we are stronger than we think. To think that without that person it is impossible to carry the bills of the house, to change the rubber of the car or to fix the pipe of the house is something that limits us to be strong and independent.
Discovering that we can do really difficult tasks for ourselves (even by asking a friend) gives us incredible strength and security as a person. But above all I have learned that when we are able to hear ourselves understand and love ourselves, our ability to be happy with another person multiplies and is always rewarded. Feeding our trust makes us better people and brings us closer to the person we are looking to have on our side.